
a committed realist
Gui-Wei (癸未)
A sensitive realist, a sensitive but persistent survivor.
He is a person with a delicate yet realistic sense, like dew on a hot summer ground.Although they have a great sense of wealth and are very patient, they are also sensitive and worry a lot.
With the delicacy of 'gye', they are good at reading other people's emotions, and when they see someone having a hard time, they cannot just ignore them and try to take care of them.
Due to the influence of the land called 'Mi(未)', I have the patience to quietly complete my tasks until the end.
Although they are sensitive, they also have the ability to identify and solve practical problems.
Even in difficult circumstances, you have the power to grow and gain honor through your own talent and effort.
“Can I do this?”“Wouldn’t that person be offended?”It's easy to tire yourself out by constantly worrying and taking care of others.
Although they may be gentle on the outside, they may lack flexibility or have difficulty communicating due to their firm beliefs on the inside.
Usually, I just pretend I'm okay, but if my emotions build up, I can explode at any moment or feel deeply lonely.
As we think about all the possibilities, we tend to postpone or hesitate to make a decision at important moments.

careful strategist
Wu-Zi (戊子)
Muja's stable embrace understands Gyemi's delicate consideration, and Muja's sense of reality embodies Gyemi's intuition.

a committed realist
Gui-Wei (癸未)
Both worry a lot, amplifying each other's anxiety, and each other's indecisiveness causes them to endlessly postpone decisions.
Your greatest weapon is empathy, and your greatest enemy is self-depletion. You need to practice caring for yourself as much as you care for others. Allocate at least 10-20 minutes each day to genuinely reflect on your own feelings. Consistently engage in activities that restore your mind and body, such as walking, warm tea, journaling, or gentle stretching. Before emotions accumulate, check in with yourself – 'How am I feeling right now?' – and it's good to share a little with a trusted person in advance.
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